Friday, September 13, 2013

Weddings and boats


I just got back in from several days on the boat.  It was a great time, as usual. The dolphins were particularly active--jumping out of the water and putting on a show.  The days were warm, but we slept under a light cover at night. Fall is definitely coming to the Lowcountry.  

I didn't do much on my iPad while I was out, so I have a lot of catching up to do on blogs.  Before I left on the boat, I was processing photos taken from my first volunteer activity for Hospice--a wedding shoot.  That has kept me busy for hours. 

The mother of the groom is in Hospice, and the wedding was held at her home.  It was a country wedding with kids and dogs milling around.  A pig had been roasting for 2 days so the reception had BBQ and all the fixings.  The mother of the groom made the bouquets.  I have to say that it was a happy time.  Nothing fancy at all, but there was a lot of caring and loving people enjoying the wedding.  

I shot a lot of photos and am going to finish them up this weekend so I can get them to the family.  I have to say that it was a lot of fun.  I was busy every moment after I arrived and continued shooting photos until dark.  No kidding what has been said about wedding photography--carry two cameras and shoot every detail; follow the bride; and get it right because there aren't any retakes. 

Hospice likes the idea of my doing photography for memory books to give to the family.  The staff have two more photographic requests for me to do.  Who knows, maybe the idea of photographing the remaining days and hours before life's end is going to be helpful. 

Last night, I went to a meeting to chair after getting off the boat.  I washed the salt off, went to the meeting, and got home around 9:30 PM.  I was tired and my legs ached too.  Lots of exercise on the beach and swimming over the last three days.  I generally get dehydrated on the boat so that may be the cause of the aching legs.  

This morning I am going to process some photos, go to a meeting and then do some cleaning on the boat in the early afternoon. After that, I'm coming home to stay for the rest of the weekend.  If I could, though, I would be out there on the water still.  It is the place of ultimate peace.

13 comments:

  1. How far on that ship could you reasonably travel with it fully stocked Cap'n? Australia?

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    1. Mark, it could circumnavigate the globe. It's a true blue water boat. Her full keel and heaviness make her ideal for long distance cruising. I am not doing her justice with my short jaunts!

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    2. That's what i thought, now all of the course work makes sense. Wish i had been a deck hand way back when.

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  2. What a beautiful thing to photograph for Hospice. I am really glad you're doing this. It is a good reminder of the fact that even as death approaches, there is much joy and LOVE. And somehow, some way, love is what powers all of it. I believe that, although I am pretty sure that we humans only get the barest glimpse of what love is.
    And that's what you are photographing- as much of that glimpse as is possible.
    I'm sorry you had to leave the sanctuary and peace of your boat on the water but it's always nice to have you home, Syd.

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  3. Just a wonderful way to help people ...taking photos. I had to sneak them in when my dad was sick because he knew I was trying to capture some last moments...that was the only time I saw tears in his eyes.

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  4. I am very grateful for your posts. Happy to see your new direction. Sounds like a perfect match. Love to both of you.

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  5. I love that photo of the bride looking in the mirror! I am glad you are getting to do this for people. So beautiful!

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  6. glad you had your peace for a bit...and glad the pics turned out well as well..have a great weekend man....

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  7. Oh Syd, what a BEAUTIFUL act of service you are giving. I am so excited for you! I love the idea of helping to create memory books filled with images from the last months of life. You are one special guy!

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  8. The sunset on the ocean is just so beautiful.

    Signed, Mary Christine - I can't get my wordpress identity to come up.

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  9. The photography and memory books sound so creative and worthwhile. A special kind of service.

    I can't post on my blog and hope I can get this comment to you!

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  10. It is a great service you are doing for these people. Thanks for sharing your experience

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  11. What a perfect way to help people, using your skill in photography. A great idea.

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