Friday, April 8, 2011

Time to kick back


I am happy it's Friday. It surely has been a busy week. The last group of kids is back from the beach. I am going to enjoy this evening on our boat, cook a good dinner, and sleep in tomorrow.

Next week is not as crazy busy as this one has been. So it looks like I will be out on our boat for the weekend and Monday too. The Civil War re-enactment will be going on this weekend on the island near where we anchor. It's a big event for the Sesquicentennial celebration. I think there is a big difference in commemorating such things and celebrating them. Wars aren't a cause for celebrating, rather trying to figure out how not to repeat tragedies.

We are so divided in this country at the moment that I wonder what the outcome will be. Shutting down all non-essential services in government seems drastic. What is preventing us from getting along and reaching middle ground? I don't understand how bickering over Planned Parenthood or green house gas emissions can bring us to a halt.

My goal Is to Live and Let Live. I do my best to not dictate to others what they need to do. Having an opinion on something is good but cramming it down everyone's throat is not. I hope that we can avert tragedy by softening our rhetoric and views. My edges that were sharp and cutting have been smoothed by recovery. I am grateful for that.

14 comments:

  1. sleeping in is a good thing.I hope that you and C have a fantanstic weekend my freind.

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  2. Me edges have been smoothed by age. I am not proud of that but it is what it is.
    Have a great weekend, Syd!

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  3. ugh its been a day here...sunday is my only weekend so looking forward to that...i dont know what is going on in our country right now...the news just kills me to watch...

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  4. I think all gov officials and law enforcement officers, should be *required* to go to 12 step meetings for 6 months to learn the principles. And yes, I do understand that "requiring" them to attend is "a bit" of an oxymoron....but I am at a loss. All of these people who are supposedly the great minds of America and its all a big fumbling mess. They need to get a good multi-tasking housewife in there...she would shape things up within a week! ;o)

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  5. Syd, you deserve a rest and I hope you get it. I hope you enjoy your weekend and the event of the sesquicentennial celebration. A wonderful way to celebrate our country during these difficult times.

    I don't want to stir the pot, but I know I can't spend money I don't have without consequences. Why does the government think it can spend money it doesn't have? PP is a social program that costs $$$. Maybe it costs $$$ for something the majority of the peeps in govt don't like. Just sayin. If my husband wants to spend $$$ on ice cream and me and my son are on a diet and don't want ice cream, maybe my husband shouldn't spend the $$$ we can't afford to spend. Sorry for the rant, but that's what I think.

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  6. had a rough go just now, i really handled it well though. i am really grateful for therapy today it helped me handle a situation wonderfully

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  7. Living in recovery is smoothing the sharp edges of my psyche too Syd. I am also grateful.

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  8. I too, am grateful for having had my edges smoothed in Al-Anon. I'm willing to let everyone have their own opinion, without editorial comment from me.

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  9. Amen to cutting back on the rhetoric. I am forever grateful that we don't talk politics in the rooms of AA. I am in a very conservative, right-wing area and it drives me crazy ... so it's a great respite to spend an hour on nothing but recovery !!
    Have a great weekend.

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  10. Excellent experience shared! :) Thanks Syd! Hope the weekend has been awesome!

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  11. My goal Is to Live and Let Live. I do my best to not dictate to others what they need to do. Having an opinion on something is good but cramming it down everyone's throat is not.

    Amen, brother. Amen.

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  12. I hope so too! Hope you had a great weekend.

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