"Once one is emptied, they become full. You can always have more once you want, truly want, what you already have. This is the great spiritual principle. Desire the life you have been given. Look for someone to share it with. Share the load. More importantly--take theirs. 'Once a burden is shared, the load is halved (Physics 101)'. Every time you do, you lose half the weight that you are carrying around.
Then immediately your life will begin to lighten up. You literally 'light your little corner (not right your little corner)'. You will be amazed at what is attracted to the light!
Remember when I looked at my collection of all that I thought had been important to me, when I looked at all that I thought I had, nothing was there. Nothing was left. Nothing except that I was left alone. Finally left alone with complete abandon. Finally, the point of surrender, a sweet surrender."