Telling what it's like to work on recovering from the effects of alcoholism through Al-Anon
Monday, December 21, 2009
A weekend of stuff
It was not a great weekend here weather wise. Instead of snow, there was torrential rain. The storm drains downtown overflowed, streets were filled with 2 feet of water and fecal matter and toilet paper floated down the main shopping street.
I do live on a mile long dirt road (one of the redneck criteria, even though I don't have other credentials for redneckedness) and it was filled with deep gullies where the road bed had washed away. Sheet flow occurs across the road because of rain running off the fields and flowing into drainage ditches that can't hold all the water. Anyway, it was an adventure going and coming. Thank goodness for a pickup truck (OMG-another trademark of a redneck!).
Anyway, I went to the boat to check up on things there after the rain passed by. It was cold and windy. I put some weatherstripping around the foreward hatch, got a hot shower, and then went to an open AA meeting on Saturday evening. It was a God moment when a young teenager with a week of sobriety won the raffle with a Big Book and As Bill Sees It. I've heard that coincidence is just God's way of being anonymous. I like that idea.
On Sunday, the man who hired me for this job years ago died. He was a gentle man and a gentleman, traits that are not as prevalent today. He and I finished up a book together last year. I'm grateful to have been given the opportunity to work with him for these many years. He was active and still came into the office every day until the last couple of weeks. And he had plans for another book. It was a life well lived.
Today is the start of Christmas week. I'm at an emotional low today but realize that this too shall pass. Tonight is my home group meeting. I need a good dose of Al-Anon along with a shot of Step Three and a dash of Tradition 12. That's a powerful concoction.
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I am sorry that you are missing an important person in your life. I am also glad that you were able to share about him. He must have been a quiet giant.
ReplyDeleteHugs..
Namaste
The man lived a respected and dignified life. We should all be so lucky.
ReplyDeleteSorry about the loss of your colleague Syd.
ReplyDeleteI hope your recipe will turn out just the way it should.
The flooding is sure a shame, especially at this time of year:( Thanks for sharing about your friend, his spirit will be kept alive as people share about him, so thank you and I am sorry for your loss. I hope you have the best Christmas ever you redneck you:) Kidding!
ReplyDeleteSorry you are feeling low, Syd. This time of year does that to me, too.
ReplyDeleteSending love,
SB
I'm so sorry for your loss, Syd. I love your plan for dealing with it.
ReplyDeleteBlessings and aloha...
another day in the process...
ReplyDeletei feel your loss. i lost a dear male friend last year - the space i once held him in is still empty and raw. i am grateful for recovery to help me deal with it.
another fitting slogan - meeting makers make it.
Holy mackeral, that rain!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry my post yesterday made you sad, Syd. It's not a new poem; it was written when my good friend Tonya was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer January last. To me, it was triumphant just like your post today. Sad things happen, but your spirit looks forward to life well lived, thanks to the steps and traditions.
I am very sorry for your loss. He must have been very special.
ReplyDeleteI must say that the photo you have here is quite beautiful in so many ways. It is crisp in detail and tells so many stories, albiet bad ones, but good ones too.
Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Syd for the perfect Rx.:
ReplyDelete"...a good dose of Al-Anon along with a shot of Step Three and a dash of Tradition 12."
Love it.
God bless you,
PG
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope this gentle man's memory and spirit lives peacefully in your heart.
ReplyDeleteHey Syd, sorry about your crappy weekend (sorry had to say that, in hopes that you would smile) Very sorry to hear about the loss of this man, he sounds like the kind of person we need more of. I hope the rest of the week is joyful for you. I'm blah too.
ReplyDeletemerry christmas syd, you are a blessing in this world. i hope you know that
ReplyDeleteyou're lucky to have known someone so worthy. i'm sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteMy condolences to you, Syd. Your collegue sounds like quite a fellow.
ReplyDeleteThis Too Shall Pass. That has gotten me through many trying times.
ReplyDeleteHappy Holidays, Syd!
Yup my friend who runs a B&B on the battery was trying to figure out how to build the ark... ;o)
ReplyDeleteSo glad all goes back to normal after time... Guess that's what we get for building a city on sand. :)
Still it is a beautiful city!
God be with your colleague and his family and friends as this loss is felt and life is celebrated!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of the loss of your colleague, sounds like he was a fine man. You are a fine man, too, Syd and such an inspiration to so many people. I would like to thank you for the times you carry us through our dark times. So God Bless and a happy and peaceful Christmas to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about your friend's death.
ReplyDeleteI've had to add redneckness to my spell check.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for your loss Syd - you're right, those traits are hard to find these days.
ReplyDeleteHoping you have a wonderful and blessed Christmas.
Blessings to you during this time of loss and sadness. I loved your recipe, and I think I will take a big dose of it myself today!
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