While things aren't great at home, they haven't deteriorated any further. I've had to make clear a painful boundary but it's one that was going to come out anyway. I'm glad that I didn't feel guilty about explaining the boundary and was able to do it in a loving way.
I went down to the boat last night. My dock neighbors have split up. I liked both of these people but they've decided that for the time being, they have to be apart. One of the fellows said that being unselfish and giving space to the other was true love. I would agree. I know that I need my space right now even if for a couple of hours. I'm feeling calm and accepting.
My SO and I have made a date for Friday night. I'm just doing my best to have no expectations and have none put on me. Just living in the moment is going to have to suffice.
I thought that the following would add some humor to this whole blues thing (from http://www.fast-consulting.com/toys/blues.htm):
You ARE qualified to write or sing the blues if: | You ARE NOT qualified to write or sing the blues if: |
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NOTE: Teenagers are not permitted to write or sing the blues. The blues is an adults-only situation. By adult, we mean that you must be old enough to disregard the electric chair if you shot (or stabbed) a man (or woman) in Memphis. |
sounds like you are taking care of you. That is great... and freakin crackin up at your lists of who can and cant sing the blues ahahhahahahahahha thanks for makin me chuckle
ReplyDeleteheeee heeeee heeeee, very funny!
ReplyDeletehere's wish you whatever it is you need to get through this!
Hey good luck with the date on friday. Good work. Yeah and thanks for the chuckle!
ReplyDeleteamerican idol.. I think so.
ReplyDeleteshit
ReplyDeletecan't write the Blues
don't wanna live anymore
but would love love love to dance to 'em again!
Well I know someone who can sing the blues. He was the night I kicked him so hard in his cojones he walked on his knees all night.
ReplyDeleteThat was pitiful.
I love the idea that you are able to set boundaries. It's great to have good communication. Who needs the drama?